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In the scheme of my own recent man-drama, i can see how i fell into these little traps that you’ve outlined so neatly. Mwahahahahaha!
I know it’s insecurity from both of us. Which is such a shame, because i think all night sessions are probably the greatest thing on earth, after battlestar galactica and blue jeans.
Dating, mating and male insights
Maybe i just pushed him to the point of no return. After 2 months again he sent me interest stating,if i am certain about getting married,he is keen to talk further.
It’s quite possible he could be repeating an 11 year pattern of trauma. I despise assholes and punks. You do have a dark sense of humor! lmao.
The scarcity theory of value
Even if he had, his statement was a gross and very negative generalization of female students there. And when you hear from him, you answer a day or two later.
So first of all, don’t fall for that, rather see through it. By not allowing him that time alone he will very quickly feel suffocated and will crawl even further into his cave. Wtf?! right?! why would he ask me that during a time like this? he obviously knows i’m hurting.
Kiss on the first date?
I have known this libra for 2 years. They pretend they want a relationship, they pretend to care and they tell you what you want to hear. Don’t assume he isn’t interested, things could change on a dime.
Rubber band theory early dating
Appreciate your own worth, keep yourself busy doing things that you enjoy, try to refrain from thinking about it all too much and remember that if he is the right guy for you, he will be in touch. And i bet that drives him nuts! Began emailing a guy 6 yrs older than me, so much chemistry.